That Fit Mum – Blog

Before we ring out this year,

Lets talk about aging..

Or growing happily older!!

Getting old or older never really perturbed me very much. I never had some sort of specific life plans for myself in my teens ,20s, 25, or 29

it felt like any other year

But as i got into my late 30s;

I kinda realised that age doesn’t scare me at all, because with every year older I turn, life gets so much better.

The plan eventually unfolds on its own as we evolve.

Like really really!!

Better in many pleasant ways…

May be those of you who are reading this..you’re in your 20s right now and thinking, “WTF is she talking about, my life is amazing.” ?

If that’s the case, well, that is amazing, and it will probably only get better.

Or could be that you’re in your 30s or 40s or 50s and you’re thinking, “WTF is she talking about, my life was bestest to the tee in my 20s..

Well, can only speak for my own experiences, those of a happy working married woman and a mother of two kids;

This decade is, in so many ways, better than the last.

That’s beyond the shadow of doubt that I had some unforgettable cherishable kaleidoscopic experiences in my 20s as well.??

But there is no denying that, with each passing year of mine, the internal side of my life – my attitude, my personality, my fitness( though I still don’t have washboard abs?) , my outlook on life is getting better and better. I started to feel it internally in my late 20s and it’s only gone up from there.

I give no more effs about piddly things and people who doesn’t matter.

Coming in terms with “Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind”

I’m way more confident, way more secure, way more strong and way more self-assured in my decisions. I am not afraid to speak my mind, and spend far less time worrying about what other people think of me and focus instead on becoming the person I want to be.

I know the importance of self care and taking care of my health and body.

I’ve learned how to listen to my body, listen to my mind, and do what I need to do to take care of myself.

I have started to accept my flaws after all who is flawless. It’s part of who I am, part of what makes me me.

I know what my skills and strengths are and I know how to use them. I know who I am and what I’m about to become and I genuinely think I’m a good the way I am. If someone disagrees, screw them. I’m amazing.

At the end of the day, we’re all going to have different experiences when it comes to ageing.

The best years of your life are when you feel confident, accomplished, loved, and secure with who you are as a person. For me, those years have started now and I hope that it will only continue to grow. With each year that passes, I feel happier. I feel more and more like the person I meant to become.

I will get to grow within myself, bring it on, life. I am braced up!

Are you?!?!?!

#growingold #aginggracefully #ageingisunderrated